(Brand New Start) 2

A few months ago, I posted Brand New Start that was about my relocation to the Queen’s land and my first relocation ever. Not had I know that the second (and soon the third) relocations will be comng this quick. Had I known this afore, I shouldn’t have mentioned it at all over the blog. But since I did the first time, I think the trend should continue.

This time, I left my home (Karachi, Pakistan) and my home away from home (Manchester, UK) for …… of all places in the world….. (c’mon make a guess)…….. Ibadan, Nigeria! Yes, Nigeria in Africa!

Now at this moment, don’t make think you are just opening google maps in the neighbouring tab of this blog window and wondering, ‘Ibadan? What’s, I mean where is this place?’ I won’t blame you if your geography is not that good enough to know where this shanty slum-like third largest town of the south-western Nigerian state of Oyo is. Like who would know? I didn’t, not until I came here and found out that this is a big city 128 km inland northeast of Lagos and the place where my Company thinks they needed me. Like, hath my luck!! Ibadan?? After Manchester, Ibadan? Oh no!! Hell yeah!

At first I was given an option to either stay back in Manchester or return to Pakistan, but the thought of having a REAL African safari, work wise, was too tempting to ignore. After a quarter of year spend in pondering which assignment to take, before I could get in terms with my decision, I was on a place, bound for Lagos and full of Indian and Lebanese businessmen in the Business class of Emirates. Now I wonder what they do there. Certainly, Shell & Mobil don’t ask just the Asians to come and work here in the Deltas, As we are as foreigners as any other fairer creature in the world (no offense). Later, I got to know what these men were investing in: Import of commodities meant as supplies for the thousands of Expats and (locals) living and working in Nigeria for the Oil companies and other corporate.

Now who would have thought that J2O or Kellogs or Lurpak or OldenBurger will be just usual home brands for an average household in Nigeria? Not me! But thanks to the revenues from petroleum, which constitutes over 80% of Nigeria’s earnings, production exceeding 2 million barrels per day, a big community of Expats (estimated at close to 100K), are all factors contributing to what is now locally called, Expat lifestyle. Just to give you an idea how grandiloquent this Country has become, Corporate tenants are willing to pay rent up to five years in advance and as much as $50,000.00 per annum for a three bedroom luxury Town House in Lagos or Abuja. So much so to keep the Expats happy.

Fact 1: Shell Trustees Estate in Maitama, Abuja: $47,000.00 per annum plus a 15% service charge for a three bedroom Town House

Fact 2: According to the annual Mercer Cost of Living Survey in 2009, Lagos ranks as the 32nd most expensive expat city in the world

Fact 3: For 90% of the Nigerian population, the cost of living and income, both are around $1 per day.

This road that we travel, may it be the straight and narrow

At times, the road less travelled is the road less forgotten. I met this road on my back packing tour to Zürich, Switzerland on 19th Dec., 2009. Chances are I might never forget it, chances are there won’t be a moment as cold yet intimate as this but don’t get me wrong I’d never say never!
possibilities are all over the expectations. So come, what may!

“I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I–
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference”

__ Robert Frost

Frequencies of the Month: Oct ‘09

The topper of my list this time is very inspirational and lifting song, Climb by Miley Cyrus. It comes as most favourite at a time when I can totally relate to it in the current circumstances. It keeps me grounded and keeps me going! 🙂

“The struggles I’m facing
The chances I’m taking
Sometimes might knock me down
But no, I’m not breaking

I may not know it
But these are the moments that
I’m gonna remember most, yeah
Just gotta keep going

And I, I got to be strong
Just keep pushing on

‘Cause there’s always gonna be another mountain
I’m always gonna wanna make it move
Always gonna be a uphill battle
Sometimes I’m gonna have to lose

Ain’t about how fast I get there
Ain’t about what’s waiting on the other side
It’s the climb, yeah!”

  1. The Climb by Miley Cyrus
  2. Bahar Aai by Tina Sani
  3. Right Round by Flo Rida Featuring Ke$ha
  4. In a Whisper by Norah Jones & Laszlo
  5. Halo by Beyonce
  6.  Don’t Go Away by Oasis
  7. Dariya Par Phool Khilaye by Nayyara Noor
  8. Khalla by Noorie
  9. If Today Was Your Last Day by Nickelback
  10. New Divide by Linkin Park
  11. Love Story by Taylor Swift
  12. Gives You Hell by All-American Rejects
  13. Tanha by Nurve
  14. Dillagi by Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan
  15. Second Chance by Shinedown
  16. Stop & Stare by One Republic
  17. Note To God by Charice
  18. Sitting on th Dock of the Bay Ottis Redding
  19. Starseed by Our Lady Peace
  20. Sober by Pink

Happy Listening  🙂

When words truly fail us at the moment

The moments of pindrop silence. Yes, the moments of sheer pindrop silence arrive. In a personal debate or public meeting, such moments leave us speechless. A few incidents are related:

A story is told that one public challenge to Rumi came from a Muslim dignitary, Qonavi, who confronted Rumi before an audience. “You claim to be at one with 72 religious sects,” said Qonavi, “but the Jews cannot agree with the Christians, and the Christians cannot agree with Muslims. If they cannot agree with each other, how could you agree with them all?” To this Rumi answered, “Yes, you are right, I agree with you too.” There was pin drop silence after it.

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Veer Savarkar once started addressing a public meeting in Hindi at Bangalore. The crowd started shouting ” Speak in Kannada. We will hear only in kannada.” Veer Savarkar replied ” Friends, I have spent 14 years of rigorous imprisonment in ill famous Andaman Jail where all freedom fighters were kept in jail. I have learned Bengali from the freedom fighters coming from Bengal, Hindi from those coming from Uttar Pradesh, even Guajarati and Punjabi. Unfortunately there was none from Karnataka from whom I could have learned Kannada.”

…… and there was pin drop silence.

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At a time when the US President and other US politicians tend to apologize for their country’s prior actions, here’s a refresher on howsome former US personnel handled negative comments about the United States. JFK’S Secretary of State, Dean Rusk, was in France in the early 60’s when Charles DeGaule, the French President, decided to pull out of NATO. DeGaule said he wanted all US military out of France as soon as possible. Rusk responded “does that include those who are buried here? DeGaule did not respond.

You could have heard a pin drop.

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When in England , at a fairly large conference, Colin Powell was asked by the Archbishop of Canterbury if US plans for Iraq were just an example of empire building by George Bush. He answered by saying, ‘Over the years, the United States has sent many of its fine young men and women into great peril to fight for freedom beyond our borders. The only amount of land we have ever asked for in return is enough to bury those that did not return.’

You could have heard a pin drop.

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There was a conference in France where a number of international engineers were taking part, including French and American. During a break, one of the French engineers came back into the room saying ‘Have you heard the latest dumb stunt Bush has done? He has sent an aircraft carrier to Indonesia to help the tsunami victims. What does he intended to do, bomb them?’

A Boeing engineer stood up and replied quietly: ‘Our carriers have three hospitals on board that can treat several hundred people; they are nuclear powered and can supply emergency electrical power to shore facilities; they have three cafeterias with the capacity to feed 3,000 people three meals a day, they can produce several thousand gallons of fresh water from sea water each day, and they carry half a dozen helicopters for use in transporting victims and injured to and from their flight deck. We have eleven such ships; how many does France have?’ You could have heard a pin drop.

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A U.S. Navy Admiral was attending a naval conference that included Admirals from the U.S. , English, Canadian, Australian and French Navies. At a cocktail reception, he found himself standing with a large group of Officers that included personnel from most of those countries. Everyone was chatting away in English as they sipped their drinks when a French admiral suddenly complained that, whereas Europeans learn many languages, Americans learn only English. He then asked, ‘Why is it that we always have to speak English in these conferences rather than speaking French?’ Without hesitating, the American Admiral replied, ‘Maybe it’s because the Brit’s, Canadians, Aussie’s and Americans arranged it so you wouldn’t have to speak German.’

You could have heard a pin drop.

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Robert Whiting , an elderly US gentleman of 83, arrived in Paris by plane. At French Customs, he took a few minutes to locate his passport in his carry on. “You have been to France before, monsieur?” the customs officer asked sarcastically. Mr. Whiting admitted that he had been to France previously. “Then you should know enough to have your passport ready.” The American said, ‘The last time I was here, I didn’t have to show it.” “Impossible. Americans always have to show your passports on arrival in France !” The American senior gave the Frenchman a long hard look. Then he quietly explained, ”Well, when I came ashore at Omaha Beach on D-Day in 1944 to help liberate this country, I couldn’t find a single Frenchman to show a passport to.”

You could have heard a pin drop!

Frequencies of the Month: Aug ‘09

Regardless of his personal life and whatever, Michael Jackson did make an impact on pop music. The guy really understood what pop music was all about, and he should be celebrated for his music. This is my tribute to him and to his music. These are the top 20 Michael Jackson songs and why they made it.

1. “Billie Jean” – Released in 1983, it is coined as the trigger of M.J.’s success. “Billie Jean” received two Grammy Awards in 1984 for Best Male R&B Vocal Performance and Best New Rhythm & Blues Song.

2. “Thriller” – The horror-sci-fi narrative music video was an astonishing 14-minutes long and was the most expensive music video of its time, costing $800,000 to create (equivalent to 1.4 million today).

3. “Beat It” – The third single from the multi-platinum selling album Thriller, “Beat It” won Jackson two Grammy Awards for Record of the Year and Best Male Rock Performance.

4. “Don’t Stop Til You Get Enough” – In 1979, Off The Wall was released and hosted this classic single that gave Michael his first solo Grammy Award for Best R&B Vocal Performance.

5. “Wanna Be Startin’ Something” – This track was the fourth single released off of Thriller. It is the longest song, running just over six minutes long.

6. “Bad” – Michael’s seventh No. 1 hit single was originally intended to be a duet with Prince. However, Prince decided against at the last minute because Jackson refused to change the first line in the song; “Your butt is mine.”

7. “P.Y.T. (Pretty Young Thing)” – This hit single off of Thriller was referenced by the President during Michael’s 1984 visit to the White House. President Ronald Reagan said, “Let’s give some T.L.C. to the P.Y.T.s.”

8. “Man In The Mirror” – The music video to the fourth consecutive No. 1 single in the U.S. from the 1988 album Bad features historical events of violence in despair; including the Baker tests of Operation Crossroads, the rescue of baby Jessica McClure, Martin Luther King, the funeral of J.F.K., and the 1984 Famine in Ethiopia.

9. “Smooth Criminal” – This hit single from Bad was the centerpiece to Jackson’s hour-long film Moonwalker, which featured Joe Pesci. Eventually, Moonwalker was adapted as an arcade and video game for Sega Genesis.

10. “The Way You Make Me Feel” – On Michael Jackson’s 30th Anniversary celebration at Madison Square Gardens, he performed this song with Britney Spears. Its most memorable performance was at the 1988 Grammy Awards.

11. “Black or White” – The first hit single from the 1991 album Dangerous opens with a guitar solo by Slash of Guns ‘n Roses. The song peaked at No. 1 on charts in more then twenty countries, despite its controversial message.

12. “Remember The Time”- This tune’s mostly remembered for its elaborate music video set in Egypt and featuring Iman, Magic Johnson and Eddie Murphy.

13. “Rock With You” – Released in 1979, the original title to this track was “I Want To Eat You Up.” It was changed to “Rock With You” to better fit Jackson’s image.

14. “Scream” – This track featured sister Janet Jackson. It is the only song in which Michael uses vulgar language; in the second chorus Michael sings “stop f*cking with me.” The music video cost $7,000,000 and remains as the most expensive video ever made.

15. “Will You Be There” – Michael walked away with a MTV Movie Award in 1994 for this single, which was featured on the soundtrack of Free Willy.

16. “Shake Your Body (To The Ground)” – Recorded with The Jackson 5, this hit was iconic of the Disco-era. Selling over two-million copies, the single attained double-platinum status.

17. “They Don’t Care About Us” – One of Jackson’s most controversial songs, the original lyrics brought accusations of Jackson being anti-Semitic. He cleared up the allegations by pulling the album, History, off of shelves and changing the lyrics.

18. “Heal The World” – In 2001, Michael Jackson told his fans through an internet chat that “Heal The World” is the song he is most proud of producing. It also inspired the creation of the Heal The World Foundation, used to teach children how to better the world around them.

19. “You Are Not Alone” – Written by R. Kelly, this was the first single in history to debut in the No. 1 spot on the Billboard Hot 100. The video sparked controversy when Michael appeared almost completely nude with his then-wife Lisa Marie Presley.

20. “Human Nature” – Steve Porcaro of Toto and John Bettis wrote this song. Jackson and Quincy Jones agreed that “Human Nature” was the most beautiful melody they had ever heard.

Happy Listening 🙂

Literal art…on sms

I understand that some of you might find it overrating to share sms’s on a blog, but I couldn’t resist putting this one up here. The quality comes for the spontaneity of the moment, as I was left totally speechless after that.

On asking a friend on text about how he felt about some individual, this is what he had to say:

“Try to understand a person as an individual of his own creed and never ever compare a being to another. There are people of some ilk, but not everyone is one…You just cannot ignore anyone for the sake of constancy…

Have you ever attended a painting exhibition?

People there don’t admire every piece of creation, they normally put their hands of appreciation on only a few…But ever asked the artist which one he thinks is tht best?..For him, everysingle creation is a masterpiece, with some special thing about every single piece, which the normal attendance fails to discover…

Same is the case with the beings, and the artist of these beings is the Artist of All, the Creator. No matter how you look, how you perceive, every single being is an individual that sets him apart from the rest, and that trait is at times the one which needs to be chanced upon”

Although it doesn’t answer at all what I wanted to know, but I think he coined it in really clear denotative terms 🙂 And yes, that was whole TEXTED! Word by Word. Copyright protected 🙂

Virtues to Treasure for a Picture Perfect Life

In order to survive in 21st Century, there need to be at least some standards and goals of morality in a person’s life. Moral excellence is definitely hard to achieve and attain, but is definitely something to attempt. Personally, I think there are many distractions and obstructions the present day provides, creating a difficulty of direction in my own life. But you need to overcome obstacles in everyday life, such as personal fears in order to become a confident, successful person. The present day provides impediments which I believe I can overcome by way of morality and virtue. In my opinion, Discipline, Courage, Patience and Faith are all virtues necessary for personal achievement in anyone’s life.

The first virtue I think is predominant over others is order or just the discipline in whatever you do. Discipline is something that directs in our everyday lives, a working condition we cannot live without.  Without order there is chaos, and with chaos there is little room for virtue. It is important because it provides life with stability and direction. As an example of Discipline, look at the awe attached with men in uniform, the attitude which governs their lifestyle is a type of order, setting specifics of where, when and how they should be. If anyone can achieve order in his own life, worries and concerns will be eliminated by means of order that will easily become habit.  Nothing can be achieved without some sort of order, but we must first recognize that the things we desire can be achieved only by gaining discipline, which is truly the first need of human life.

Courage is the second virtue I have chosen. Courage is a virtue needed to conquer fear or despair. The virtue of courage is important because it can be applied in numerous situations and it wasn’t said just-like-that: “Who dares wins”. If people possess courage, they can be strong and stable in situations where they might feel uncomfortable. Since there are many things in life which are stressful and unfamiliar, such as apprehension of the first day on a job, taking a scary ride, or doing something what you thought you can never do, courage will allow you to overcome these suspicions and fears. If you can overcome those fears, you will never have to ask the question to yourself, “What if?”, ‘cause you’ll just surely know the “then.” Remember, Noah was a brave man to sail in a wooden boat with two termites. When at one hand with courage, you can feel better about yourself and not be so timid, but at the same time, courage is not something which you should abuse. If courage is abused it can easily generate into conceit or egotism. Egotism can easily be obtained by overworking courage. Courage levels out to be the happy medium between bashfulness and conceit… As the Nike sales line goes, “Just do it!but, responsibly.

The third virtue which I think leads to self-improvement is patience. Patience is the tolerance and the ability to wait. Patience is necessary for life because throughout life there is waiting to be done. At times it feels like half of life is spent in waiting, but thankfully there are few desirable alternatives to being patient. Patience is a required trait, and there are absolutely no shortcuts for waiting. Personally, patience can be applied to my life because there is suspense and waiting for the rest of my life and there is no alternative for even my own waiting. You must wait for the right time, wait for your turn, wait for the light to turn green, ‘cause remember if you don’t then it’s good to know that it takes 8,460 bolts to assemble an automobile, and one nut to scatter it all over the road!

Faith is the last but not the least of all the virtues to embrace (and no, I didn’t mean to be clichéd 🙂 ) This is one of the virtues that literally keeps me alive, floats me through abysmal situations and gives me hope when it’s least expected. Have faith, have hope and you’ll never end up on the end which you don’t want to be. Out of the all the rest, Faith is one virtue which is governed by the heart, and not the mind, thus it comes as the hardest one to comprehend and attain. But when one taps into these mystical powers of Faith, that person opens a door of unlimited knowledge, which might at times become exhaustive, but that’s where your discipline is practiced, courage is challenged and patience put to test. I read somewhere, “Faith can move mountains, but don’t be surprised if God hands you a shovel” and there, you just know exactly where to weave your virtues in 🙂

In agreement with William Shakespeare, I conclude here by quoting, “Virtue is bold, and goodness never fearful” 🙂

Enjoy my Earthlings, wishing you a Happy Life 🙂

A Cat’s Nine Lives (or may be more)

“I left the woods for as good a reason as I went there. Perhaps, it seemed to me that I had several more lives to live, and could not spare any time for that one.”

                                                                        -Henry David Thoreau

            Many times I would find myself in a state of mass confusion. It was as if I had no perception of where I would go with my life. I was trapped in a realm of things which were unfamiliar to me. When I tried to experience these new adventures I ended up back where I started in a slow state of apathy and decay. New ideas and thoughts seemed impossible for me to grasp. It seemed that anything that was new to me was too much of a hassle. How could I move on in a positive manner in this state? At some moments in my life, all that I wanted to do was the same old thing over and over like a broken record repeating itself over and over until it wore itself out. But the last thing that anyone would want was to wear oneself out. So what is it that one desires?

            After every short while, I look for some inspiration from an unknown point.  I realize I would not succeed in this battle called life without some serious motivation. The only one who could help me was me.  I know that I’m not meant to do the exact same thing for the rest of my life, as from the inception, my nature wasn’t build so. Every time I indulged in something, soon its appeal would exhaust and I had to escape its bottomless pit and move on to the next adventure. I thought, “I had several more lives to live and could not spare any time for that one.”

            I then move on to another life. My “new” life is at times very hard to get used to, but is well worth the trouble. I begin trying new things and actually enjoy them. I realize now that I only have a short time in my life and I have to make a difference here, before I move on to the higher place. I need to speak my views and express my feelings. I need to have fun and work for what I believe in at the same time. Soon I will move on once again to a whole new realm of adventure and a whole new set of standards. These progressions are what are keeping me alive and will follow with me long after I have passed on.

Crisis in DR Congo: Where Death doesn’t fear to tread, it dwells!

The Conflict

Anyone familiar with the Congo has heard the mind-numbing statistics: more than four million dead since 1998 (and many more before then), the most killed in any conflict since the Second World War. 1,200 people a day are still dying from conflict and conflict-related causes such as starvation and preventable disease.

The origins of the conflict lie across the border in Rwanda and the genocide committed there in 1994. Some of the extremist Hutu militias responsible crossed the border into what is now DR Congo. Rwanda, now run by the Tutsi force which ended the genocide, has twice invaded its much larger neighbour, saying it wants to wipe out the Hutu militias. General Laurent Nkunda, leader of the strongest rebel group in eastern Democratic Republic of Congo has always claimed he was protecting Congolese Tutsis from attacks by the FDLR (Democratic Forces for the Liberation of Rwanda). He was arrested in January, 2009.

But all sides have also been accused of plundering eastern DR Congo’s rich mineral resources – gold, diamonds, tin and coltan, used in mobile phones. It is estimated that DR Congo has reserves for the 10% of the total Copper found in the crater of Earth. DR Congo is about the size of Western Europe, but with no road or rail links from one side of the country to the other, making it easy to take advantage of any disorder and plunder natural resources.

A five-year war – sometimes termed “Africa’s world war” as it drew in Angola, Namibia, Zimbabwe, Uganda and Rwanda – ended in 2003 with the formation of a transitional government and subsequent elections. But unrest has continued in the unruly east of the country and, as a result, some armed groups have refused to disarm or join the national army. Last year, an offensive by General Laurent Nkunda’s forces led to fears of another humanitarian disaster in the country, with some 250,000 people fleeing their homes.

They joined more than one million already displaced in the region. A vast nation in the heart of Africa, DR Congo is struggling to recover from a lengthy conflict in which up to five million people died, mostly through starvation and disease. The world’s largest UN peacekeeping force has been trying to help secure an end to that war, and prevent further outbreaks of fighting involving government troops, militia groups, rebel forces and now Rwandan troops.

Awareness

The country languished as the second worst on the list of failed states until last year after the war in Iraq. The larger war that was fought in Congo included eight countries; regional fighting and violence still continue and instability, impunity and inhumanity are rampant. There are some parts of the country where two out of every three women have been raped.

Children are still widely used as soldiers if they are boys, and as “wives” to militia soldiers if they are girls. The state exerts little authority over much of the eastern part of the country — it is controlled by at least 22 known armed groups. Bands of militia groups roam freely and each answer only to their own respective leader, living off the population and offering as payment the “Congolese credit card” — the AK-47.

Because these travesties have happened in relative obscurity — for example, 16 times as many people have died in Congo as have in the terrible ongoing genocide in Darfur, yet far more has been heard about Western Sudan than Central Africa — one goal here is to simply raise awareness. The hope being that a spotlight’s glare might help in a place where too much suffering has happened in the dark and also help those who are already hard at work trying to help themselves and their country.

Realization

The UN has been taking control of several towns in the region. The UN Security Council has voted to increase its 17,000-strong force by another 3,000. But diplomats admit they do not know where the troops will come from, or when they will be sent. There are currently some 5,500 peacekeepers in North Kivu, where the recent fighting has been taken place, including some 1,000 stationed in the provincial capital, Goma.

There have been calls for the mandate to be made stronger. However, the force operates under a Chapter Seven mandate, the most robust available for a peacekeeping operation – allowing it to protect the civilian population and themselves. There are also calls for Europe to send in an elite force, as France did when it lead a European Union mission to Ituri, further north of Goma, to stop a separate conflict a few years ago.

Manifestation

The humanitarian costs of the violence have been catastrophic. Over 300,000 have been newly displaced since fighting resumed and the Congolese army has been implicated in looting, rapes and killings in and around Goma as troops abandoned their positions. The UN peacekeeping force MONUC, though 17,000-strong and the biggest of all UN missions, has shown itself unprepared and unable to respond to the unfolding crisis and fulfill its mandate to protect civilians.

As violence continues the risks of a further escalation of the conflict are high. After several unsuccessful efforts to impose a military solution to rebel activity in Congo’s east, the international community must now apply heavy pressure on Kinshasa and Kigali to find a comprehensive political approach that will give momentum to both the Amani and Nairobi processes. Renewed commitment is essential to prevent even more devastating humanitarian consequences.

Resolution to the Current Crisis

To rebuild the state and augment its authority, the government must strengthen democracy or risk being paralysed by recurrent unrest, structural impotence and renewed instability in ever more parts of the country. Only a change of governance can provide the legitimacy and capacity to raise the revenues necessary to distribute peace dividends to all sectors of society.

The government still lacks the capacity to control the national territory. The main problems are well known: ill-disciplined, ill-equipped and often abusive security forces, continuing control by militias of large areas of the East and the risk of civil unrest and repressive violence in the West, where there is little government authority. The problems are closely intertwined: the weakness and partisanship of the security forces fuel popular resentment and allow militias to prosper. Creating a national, apolitical army out of the various armed groups and competent police able to handle urban disorder peacefully and provide genuine security is central to consolidating stability.

Donors must stay engaged, linking aid (over half the budget) to a political framework for a new partnership with Congo’s institutions to deal with peace building priorities.

To press the government to improve management of natural resources, including by cancelling illegal contracts, and consider creation of a permanent watchdog for natural resource management.

After Effects of the Conflict Situation

Aid workers are extremely worried about tens of thousands of people in the area. All sides are accused of carrying out horrific atrocities against civilians, in particular mass rape. Aid is now getting through to those who fled last year’s fighting between militia and the army. A new wave of conflict, targeting the FDLR (Democratic Forces for the Liberation of Rwanda), could lead to another humanitarian disaster.

Steve Jobs’ Speech: Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish

Apple and Pixar CEO, Steve Jobs, spoke at Stanford University’s commencement on June 12, 2005. Even if you aren’t a huge Steve Jobs fan, you will love this speech.

Time Magazine writes: "Don't let his cool exterior fool you. This guy is all about business."
Time Magazine writes: “Don’t let his cool exterior fool you. This guy is all about business.”

A look at Steve Job’s profile

 “I am honored to be with you today at your commencement from one of the finest universities in the world. I never graduated from college. Truth be told, this is the closest I’ve ever gotten to a college graduation. Today I want to tell you three stories from my life. That’s it. No big deal. Just three stories.

The first story is about connecting the dots.

I dropped out of Reed College after the first 6 months, but then stayed around as a drop-in for another 18 months or so before I really quit. So why did I drop out? It started before I was born. My biological mother was a young, unwed college graduate student, and she decided to put me up for adoption. She felt very strongly that I should be adopted by college graduates, so everything was all set for me to be adopted at birth by a lawyer and his wife. Except that when I popped out they decided at the last minute that they really wanted a girl. So my parents, who were on a waiting list, got a call in the middle of the night asking: “We have an unexpected baby boy; do you want him?” They said: “Of course.” My biological mother later found out that my mother had never graduated from college and that my father had never graduated from high school. She refused to sign the final adoption papers. She only relented a few months later when my parents promised that I would someday go to college.  

And 17 years later I did go to college. But I naively chose a college that was almost as expensive as Stanford, and all of my working-class parents’ savings were being spent on my college tuition. After six months, I couldn’t see the value in it. I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life and no idea how college was going to help me figure it out. And here I was spending all of the money my parents had saved their entire life. So I decided to drop out and trust that it would all work out OK. It was pretty scary at the time, but looking back it was one of the best decisions I ever made. The minute I dropped out I could stop taking the required classes that didn’t interest me, and begin dropping in on the ones that looked interesting.  

It wasn’t all romantic. I didn’t have a dorm room, so I slept on the floor in friends’ rooms, I returned coke bottles for the 5 deposits to buy food with, and I would walk the 7 miles across town every Sunday night to get one good meal a week at the Hare Krishna temple. I loved it. And much of what I stumbled into by following my curiosity and intuition turned out to be priceless later on. Let me give you one example:  Reed College at that time offered perhaps the best calligraphy instruction in the country. Throughout the campus every poster, every label on every drawer, was beautifully hand calligraphed. Because I had dropped out and didn’t have to take the normal classes, I decided to take a calligraphy class to learn how to do this. I learned about serif and san serif typefaces, about varying the amount of space between different letter combinations, about what makes great typography great. It was beautiful, historical, artistically subtle in a way that science can’t capture, and I found it fascinating.  

None of this had even a hope of any practical application in my life. But ten years later, when we were designing the first Macintosh computer, it all came back to me. And we designed it all into the Mac. It was the first computer with beautiful typography. If I had never dropped in on that single course in college, the Mac would have never had multiple typefaces or proportionally spaced fonts. And since Windows just copied the Mac, its likely that no personal computer would have them. If I had never dropped out, I would have never dropped in on this calligraphy class, and personal computers might not have the wonderful typography that they do. Of course it was impossible to connect the dots looking forward when I was in college. But it was very, very clear looking backwards ten years later.  Again, you can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something — your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.  

My second story is about love and loss.

I was lucky — I found what I loved to do early in life. Woz and I started Apple in my parents garage when I was 20. We worked hard, and in 10 years Apple had grown from just the two of us in a garage into a $2 billion company with over 4000 employees. We had just released our finest creation — the Macintosh — a year earlier, and I had just turned 30. And then I got fired. How can you get fired from a company you started? Well, as Apple grew we hired someone who I thought was very talented to run the company with me, and for the first year or so things went well. But then our visions of the future began to diverge and eventually we had a falling out. When we did, our Board of Directors sided with him. So at 30 I was out. And very publicly out. What had been the focus of my entire adult life was gone, and it was devastating.  

I really didn’t know what to do for a few months. I felt that I had let the previous generation of entrepreneurs down – that I had dropped the baton as it was being passed to me. I met with David Packard and Bob Noyce and tried to apologize for screwing up so badly. I was a very public failure, and I even thought about running away from the valley. But something slowly began to dawn on me — I still loved what I did. The turn of events at Apple had not changed that one bit. I had been rejected, but I was still in love. And so I decided to start over.  

I didn’t see it then, but it turned out that getting fired from Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again, less sure about everything. It freed me to enter one of the most creative periods of my life.  

During the next five years, I started a company named NeXT, another company named Pixar, and fell in love with an amazing woman who would become my wife. Pixar went on to create the worlds first computer animated feature film, Toy Story, and is now the most successful animation studio in the world. In a remarkable turn of events, Apple bought NeXT, I retuned to Apple, and the technology we developed at NeXT is at the heart of Apple’s current renaissance. And Laurene and I have a wonderful family together.

I’m pretty sure none of this would have happened if I hadn’t been fired from Apple. It was awful tasting medicine, but I guess the patient needed it. Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick. Don’t lose faith. I’m convinced that the only thing that kept me going was that I loved what I did. You’ve got to find what you love. And that is as true for your work as it is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don’t settle.  

My third story is about death.  

When I was 17, I read a quote that went something like: “If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you’ll most certainly be right.” It made an impression on me, and since then, for the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: “If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?” And whenever the answer has been “No” for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.  

Remembering that I’ll be dead soon is the most important tool I’ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything — all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure – these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.  

About a year ago I was diagnosed with cancer. I had a scan at 7:30 in the morning, and it clearly showed a tumor on my pancreas. I didn’t even know what a pancreas was. The doctors told me this was almost certainly a type of cancer that is incurable, and that I should expect to live no longer than three to six months. My doctor advised me to go home and get my affairs in order, which is doctor’s code for “prepare to die.” It means to try and tell your kids everything you thought you’d have the next 10 years to tell them in just a few months. It means to make sure everything is buttoned up so that it will be as easy as possible for your family. It means to say your goodbyes.  

I lived with that diagnosis all day. Later that evening I had a biopsy, where they stuck an endoscope down my throat, through my stomach into my intestines, put a needle into my pancreas and got a few cells from the tumor. I was sedated, but my wife, who was there, told me that when they viewed the cells under a microscope the doctors started crying because it turned out to be a very rare form of pancreatic cancer that is curable with surgery. I had the surgery and, thankfully, I’m fine now.  

This was the closest I’ve been to facing death, and I hope it’s the closest I get for a few more decades. Having lived through it, I can now say this to you with a bit more certainty than when death was a useful but purely intellectual concept: No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don’t want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It’s Life’s change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new. Right now the new is you, but someday not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away. Sorry to be so dramatic, but it’s quite true.  

Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.  

When I was young, there was an amazing publication called The Whole Earth Catalog, which was one of the “bibles” of my generation. It was created by a fellow named Stewart Brand not far from here in Menlo Park, and he brought it to life with his poetic touch. This was in the late 60s, before personal computers and desktop publishing, so it was all made with typewriters, scissors, and Polaroid cameras. It was sort of like Google in paperback form, 35 years before Google came along. It was idealistic, overflowing with neat tools and great notions.  

Stewart and his team put out several issues of The Whole Earth Catalog, and then when it had run its course, they put out a final issue. It was the mid-1970s, and I was your age. On the back cover of their final issue was a photograph of an early morning country road, the kind you might find yourself hitchhiking on if you were so adventurous. Beneath it were the words: “Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish.” It was their farewell message as they signed off. Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish. And I’ve always wished that for myself. And now, as you graduate to begin anew, I wish that for you.  

Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish”

Thank you all very much!

“Steve Jobs”